The tattle-telling adult

Like children, the tattle-telling adult likes to get others in trouble just as long as the blame is not on them. These people are never happy unless someone is in trouble. They live their lives running around finding someone to tell on. Even if that person has done nothing wrong, the tattle-telling adult will find something to tell on them about. They use tattle-telling to get ahead in a job, end relationships, ruin families, and ruin someones life. I have met these people. My second husband was a tattle-telling adult. Some of these tattle-telling adults have ruined things in my life. Anger is not the way to deal with these people. I have had to learn that forgiveness and understanding is the only way to deal with them. Sometimes talking to them to see why they have a problem with you works and sometimes it don't. There is no way to avoid a tattle-telling adult because they are everywhere. I knew this one that had kids and told their children not to tattle-tell and then turned around to tattle-tell on someone. If you know a tattle-telling adult, just pray for them and forgive them. Like I said before, anger is not the way to deal with them, for anger will cause more trouble. Avoiding them will also cause trouble.