Thursday, March 27, 2008

Life after divorce

I have been married two times. I just got my second divorce in February of this year. Some people say it is hard to move on after a divorce. My first divorce was hard on me, because I still love the guy. This divorce was different. I became happier. I started feeling better and the stress I had was gone. The second marriage was a mess. He would always yell and hit me. I had to leave. Some women stay in a marriage like that, but not me. I would rather live on my own then to put up with something like that, and this "but he says he loves me" junk is not true. If he loves you, he would not hit you or put you down. I tell you ladies that life is worth more then that. Why put up with that, when there are better things in life. If he hits you, just think about later on. He could end up doing something worse. If I can get away from this then so can you. I had help from God and my family. I am now back with my first husband. No we are not married. We are taking it slow. He treats me the way a woman should be treated, with love, respect, and kindness. Just think ladies, I say you are worth more than what you think you are. I know I am worth something.

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