Answer to the questions

I have had a lot of people email me some questions, so I will answer them all on this blog. First question is:"How does it feel getting back with your first husband?" It feels great being with him. He is my first true love. The next question was: "Why would you want to get back with him after you both divorced each other?" Why not? I love him. He shows me real love. We have both made mistakes and have regrets in the past and getting a divorce was one of them. We both forgave each other and we love each other so we decided to give it another try. "If you got back with your first husband and if things did not work out, would you go back to your second husband?" No I would not. My second husband was very abusive and I would not put myself back in that relationship ever again. I am committed to working things out with my first husband. "Are you ever going to marry your first husband?" That is between me and him. Right now I am not thinking about marriage after just getting a divorce. Right now I want to rebuild a relationship with him. "What do you think the future hold for you and your boyfriend?" I have no idea. I am living for today. I will just take one step at a time. Tomorrow is just another day and we will handle what comes our way when we get there. I have faith in God that he will show us the way. That is all the questions I got. If I ever get anymore, I will answer them as they come along.

The tattle-telling adult

Like children, the tattle-telling adult likes to get others in trouble just as long as the blame is not on them. These people are never happy unless someone is in trouble. They live their lives running around finding someone to tell on. Even if that person has done nothing wrong, the tattle-telling adult will find something to tell on them about. They use tattle-telling to get ahead in a job, end relationships, ruin families, and ruin someones life. I have met these people. My second husband was a tattle-telling adult. Some of these tattle-telling adults have ruined things in my life. Anger is not the way to deal with these people. I have had to learn that forgiveness and understanding is the only way to deal with them. Sometimes talking to them to see why they have a problem with you works and sometimes it don't. There is no way to avoid a tattle-telling adult because they are everywhere. I knew this one that had kids and told their children not to tattle-tell and then turned around to tattle-tell on someone. If you know a tattle-telling adult, just pray for them and forgive them. Like I said before, anger is not the way to deal with them, for anger will cause more trouble. Avoiding them will also cause trouble.

Living with bipolar and other mental problems

It is a constant battle everyday. It is worse if you have mental problems. I have bipolar. There are days that are really good and there are days when nothing seems to go right. It is like a really bad roller coaster. It don't help when your loved ones and friends don't understand. On top of having bipolar, I hear voices and see things. Medication helps most of the time, but there are times when the medication does not work. I really like to be happy, but sometimes I just start feeling sad for no reason, or angry for no reason. I am still a person, but when I tell someone that I have bipolar, they treat me like I am crazy and stupid. I have feelings and I am smart. Those of you who have the same problems know how I feel. I tried running away from it. I tried ignoring it. I even tried hiding it. That all ended bad. As for the voices and seeing things, it is somewhat under control. Talking about this does make me feel better and helps people to understand what a person with bipolar goes through. So the next time someone tells you that they have a mental problem, don't treat them bad, show them some respect like you would show any one else. We are people also.

Life after divorce

I have been married two times. I just got my second divorce in February of this year. Some people say it is hard to move on after a divorce. My first divorce was hard on me, because I still love the guy. This divorce was different. I became happier. I started feeling better and the stress I had was gone. The second marriage was a mess. He would always yell and hit me. I had to leave. Some women stay in a marriage like that, but not me. I would rather live on my own then to put up with something like that, and this "but he says he loves me" junk is not true. If he loves you, he would not hit you or put you down. I tell you ladies that life is worth more then that. Why put up with that, when there are better things in life. If he hits you, just think about later on. He could end up doing something worse. If I can get away from this then so can you. I had help from God and my family. I am now back with my first husband. No we are not married. We are taking it slow. He treats me the way a woman should be treated, with love, respect, and kindness. Just think ladies, I say you are worth more than what you think you are. I know I am worth something.