What to do with him

I have a hard time dealing with a person in my life. This person is lazy. When it comes time to do any work, he runs off or just sits there. He runs to the kitchen every 5 min and comes back out with food. I tried controlling that, but once the family goes to bed, he gets up and sneaks into the kitchen and gets food. He does not want to get a job cause he is like I said lazy. My husband and I have to get him up and make sure he takes his medication. He will forget appointments on purpose and then blames it on us. We have tried talking to him and setting rule, but that don't work. I wish I knew what to do. He is like a kid in a adult body.

Long Time

Yes it has been a long time sense I have blogged. Many things have happened in my life. I got married April 10, 2009 to my 3rd husband. He is a good person. I moved and now am close to family. I had surgery, My first ever, in October 9th, 2009. I went to school and became a medical coding specialist. I am looking for a job. Was going to church with my brother and sister-in-law, but something about going to that church was not working for me and my husband. I became an Aunt 2 x's, That makes me happy. My mother-in-law has been in and out of the hospital many times. So many things have happened and now I am back to blogging. Now you are up to date, I will be blogging more later. God Bless.